FirstMet Online Dating Support Center

Support Center

Getting Started

  • Browsing Members

    Click on Yes or Skip to browse through members! If you want to limit your search by age, distance, and ethnici...

  • Browse Filters - Controlling Who You See Vs. Who Sees You

    In addition to editing your filters to control who you would like to see, users also have the option to edit w...

  • Update Your Profile

    Edit and add more information or photos to your Profile by hovering over your profile picture in the top right...

  • Add Photos

    Add more photos to get more responses! We recommend members use photos that have a clear head shot as their pr...

  • Adding Interests

    The more interests you add, the more times you will show up for other people who like the same things you do! ...

  • Checking Your Inbox

    Under the Mail tab, click on Inbox to view all your messages!

  • Connections Tab

    Check under Connections to see your Matches, My Likes, Likes Me, Viewed Me and Members Lounge.

  • IM (Instant Messaging)

    Chat with members online now by sending them an Instant Message! You can IM anyone from his or her profile. If...

  • Ask men or women an Icebreaker about their interests!

    Ask a bunch of men or women closest to your age and location a question! Select one of the questions to get th...
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